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Comment by Maya Andrea Y. Grillo Massar on October 8, 2009 at 9:42pm

Hi Angie,

This may be more than you asked for, but its what came to me to write, so here goes (take what works for you, and let it all go if it doesn't serve!):

Ok. Let me start with this: I believe that no matter how scary the truth is, its less scary for it to be openly out on the table than it is to have secrets and hidden truths lurking in the minds of those around us. Your mother may NOT be consciously wanting to hear the truth at this time, but we are all connected to all that is, and on some level her being is aware of the full truth of her situation. My own mother was scared at first, but I kept making space for her to open to the fact that she was dying – maybe tomorrow, maybe a week or month or even two years from now – but we are ALL dying, really, so it makes sense to think about it, and talk about it when we are able. Over time she asked more and more questions and when she saw that I was not afraid to discuss these things and that she was welcome to feel HOWEVER she needed to feel (I actually said clearly to her that she was WELCOME to be sad or furious or joyful or relieved or terrified or WHATEVER she needed to feel about it all) and that I would be with her thru it all, she became more and more comfortable talking about it. I would not push a conversation like this on anyone, but I think it is one of the greatest blessings anyone can offer a person nearing the end of his or her Earthwalk – the willingness to bear the truth with them.

Ok, that said, stones that could help…its important that YOU get very clear about what your intention is – because with stones, well, they want to assist you but if you are in any way out of alignment with your Higher Self or God-Self (or whatever you like to call that part of you that is wise and eternal) – stones and you shall be working at odds – stones, unlike human beings, are not ABLE to work in disharmony with Source.

So first, Id suggest that you find a personal ‘grounding’ stone. That would be a stone from the natural world somewhere near where you live…center yourself, make a prayer for guidance, and go out with your intuition and heart wide open…you will find your way to a stone – one that has, quite possibly, been calling to your spirit for eons. You might have such a stone in your collection already. Find this stone and spend a night with it. Open to its comfort, its strength, and its wisdom. You and this stone will be a foundation for your work with your mom – whenever you feel spacey, overwhelmed, or lost, you can come back to this stone and remember yourself, reconnect to the Earth from whence all our bodies – these amazing vessels that house us – come.

You might try gathering a grounding stone for your mother as well – preferably one that connects in some way to where she lived a good part of her life. You don’t have give it to her directly, you can place it on or near a photo of your mother. In fact, distance healing works very well with stones. Clear quartz is great for ‘sending’ stone energy or love or prayers to others who are far away or perhaps uneasy with this sort of thing. Before you do any work on any other person, however, you need to ask their guardians or spirit if they are willing to receive the work – just as you would aks someone before massaging them or whatever. If you get a “no” then that is that. But this is rare and my guess is that your mother will welcome your work.

Now for specifics – there are a ZILLION books and charts and internet sites that list various stones and what their healing properties are – you can google them or go look them up. Or I or someone else on this site can suggest things – HOWEVER, one of the things I feel the stones are here to teach us (for indeed, they ARE living beings with path and purpose as we are) is to open to our intuition. So the very best thing I can suggest to you is this: Sit in silence, breathe gently and deeply for several minutes with your grounding stone. Calm and center yourself. And ASK. Preferably or loud. Aks your stone/angels to guide you to the right stones and teach you how to use them…

Because all the books or advice in this world are nothing compared to your own deepest knowing – and your connection to your mom will strengthen as you open your heart and intuition. One way to star is to sit with pen and paper and simply ask for the COLOR (not the details of stone names – these can be harder to access intuitively until you come to trust your intuition) of the stone you should use for the following things (I just made this list based on what I went through with my mom and thought you might be able to use this – if not, dream up y our own list – it will be even better!). Ask for a color for each of the listed things – write down what you get – you may hear or see or even smell the color – stay open! When you have the colors you need, take it to the next level by investigating stones in those colors. You will feel an ‘intuitive pull’ when you are picking up the right stone.

You can take this one step further once you have the stones you feel are right – and intuit ways to use them. Or I or others here can give you suggestions. But start with colors, then find stones…yoru intuition will be your greatest guide in how to be present with your mom even without the stones. Presence is the bedt gift you can give anyone. Help her do and say all the things she needs to do and say in the time she has left – dying can be sweet when we feel settled in life. Say “I love you” A LOT. Wanting to feel loved is the reason most of us do everything we do. Being loved makes our hearts at peace.

Here is the list to ask your guides for colors for:

Angel Stones for safe passage through rough seas
Stones for releasing energy blocks and creating movement of emotion
Stones for generating an energy field of LOVE and SUPPORT
Stones for energizing yourself
Stones for healing of the heart, blood flow, nourishment
Stones for cleansing of toxins – both in the physical body and the emotional
Stones for the unearthing of secrets
Stones to help you open your heart
Stones to help you open your intuition (3rd eye)
Stones for courage
Stones for Grace

I wish you and your mother much Love and many Heart-Miracles.
Please feel free and welcome to join my crystal meditation and healing ceremony via distance tune-in. Some people get a lot of energy from them. They are monthly, third Saturday, you can check the website and see if you resonate with them: http://crystalzaba.webs.com/

Blessings & Love
Maya

Comment by angie brown on October 8, 2009 at 8:56pm

hi maya
shes been like this for three years but getting worse quickly .Idont think mum belives in much really shes very scared of whats happerning to her but but we havent told her how bad she is.She gets very depressed her state is poor she cant walk to good memory is going she is frightened sometimes shes like another person
love
angie

Comment by Maya Andrea Y. Grillo Massar on October 8, 2009 at 8:34pm

Dear Angie,

Having just (two days ago) returned home after spending a month with my mother, helping her die, I can really feel for and with you. Crystal healing may help your mother, but remember to work with the stones for yourself too - it takes an enormous amount of love and stamina on all levels to bear witness to a parents body/mind changes of this sort.

Before I suggest anything specific, I have a few questions:
Can you say what stage your mother is at now, and also how open she is to alternative healing?
Is she open to TRANSFORMATION - no matter what that may end up looking like?
Is she afraid? Depressed? Curious? (etc)
Basically, if you can, short version, describe her state: physical, emotional, mental and spiritual, I will make some suggestions for stones and ways of using them that you and she could try working with.
Love to you and your mother,
Maya

Comment by angie brown on October 8, 2009 at 7:58pm

hi guys
could anyone suggesthealing some healing stones for me to use for my mum and tell me the best way to use them.
i have just been told by her doctor that she has lewy body dementtia which is very bad and seeing she cant be medicated i would like to help as much as i can to make the rest of her time with us more comfortable

many thanks
angie

Comment by Maya Andrea Y. Grillo Massar on September 4, 2009 at 10:23pm

ps: Anyone had any interesting encounters with Azezulite?

Comment by Maya Andrea Y. Grillo Massar on September 4, 2009 at 10:22pm

Hello Gaia Crystal Healing Folk!
Im excited to be a member!
Blessings to you All and all the stone/crystal beings who are the shining organs of our EarthMother's body!!
Blessed Be our co-creation with the Stone People.
Love
Maya

Comment by Jolyn on February 5, 2009 at 6:55am

I too am new to crystal work, but want to learn from you wonderful people.

Comment by Seafyre Love on August 22, 2008 at 3:04pm

"We greet the gemstones in their beauty and brilliant emantaion and for a moment we are conscious that they are a bit of eternity--manifested, living, shining spirit. We thereby acknowledge their divine being, show gratitude that they are there for us, and thank them for their dedication and willingness to help us."
- Ursula Klinger-Omenka, Reiki with Gemstones, pg.27

Comment by Wendy on August 5, 2008 at 5:10am

One of my favourite crystals in my Lemurian Seed Crystal wand that my friend brought me back from Mount Shasta Wesak celebrations in 2006. It would be good to feel that it was connected to all the others!

Blessings

Wendy xx

Comment by Seafyre Love on July 21, 2008 at 3:45am

It is said that a Lemurian Seed Crystal is connected to all others in the world. That would be a great crystal to work with for everyone and would span the globe. Besides being a fantastic gridding crystal.

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